Need urgent legal advice about restraining order and harassment?
Written on November 10, 2009 – 5:47 am | by Drug Abuse Help
I had an ex who was stalking me. His ex (now current) has harassed me verbally, online with libel, slander, and even contacted my kids. I got a temporary restraining order. I didn’t have my evidence with me because the clerk said they accepted faxes then the judge didn’t. They lied under oath and said I’d done to them everything they’d actually done to me. Because of their outrageous lies. They received the restraining order.
10 days later, we went to court for small claims because he’d hit my car twice (domestic violence). We settled and that day he claimed he’d filled the form to drop the restraining order so we could "be friends." Long story short, he kept contacting me and so did she and I was stupid enough to respond. Now I just found out the restraining order wasn’t actually dropped. She’d sent me long horrible texts just to get me to respond. All I said was stop harassing me but she still got a response. Now I find out tonight she filed a police report because of it. In essence, he still wants to be together and this makes her even more angry and vindictive. I broke up with him last year and I never looked back. Now this legal drama. One last thing, they or she got a duplicate atm card last march then right after the legal stuff in may, she or they tried to get out $1k at an atm. Now that’s being investigated as they had my social and pin number etc to be able to get a duplicate card and monitor it til after a year later to try to steal the money.
1 final thing, he has a history of domestic violence and drug abuse though now he’s supposedly clean. Also, she has been arrested for drug dealing and prostitution. She was a stripper in vegas but now she’s a stripper in whittier.
Please help asap. Thank you.
