is it wrong to be upset with my sister for having hard feelings towards our dad?
Written on July 9, 2009 – 12:16 pm | by Drug Abuse Help
my sister and I were adopted out when we were toddlers. My mother was severely abusive and her husband at the time was also abusive. My mother and father were divorced but both had a really bad drug and alcohol problem. My dad found out the abuse and turned my mother into Welfare. My dad admitted that he had addiction problems and knew at the time he couldn’t take care of us. Welfare placed my sister and I in foster homes into which we were adopted. We since then have met our biological family and I have made amends with them(at least my dad) I really appreciate that he was strong enough to admit that he couldn’t give us the life that we deserved. My sister on the other hand thinks he is worthless and talks badly about him. Are my feelings of being upset with my sister wrong. I just get tired of hearing her talk badly about him. She has more respect for our abuser than she does our father who cared enough to give us up so we could have a better life.
